My Students Refused to Let Me Cancel Class
Last semester, in Fall 2024, I attempted to give students a “research day,” thinking they would appreciate the extra time to work independently. Instead of relief, my announcement was met with awkward hesitation. One student asked, “Can we still come to class if we want to?” Another added, “This is one of the few places where I actually get to talk to people. I’d rather still meet.” Their responses were a powerful reminder that, for many, the classroom is more than a space for lectures and exams—it’s a place of connection and community.
I quickly adjusted the plan, turning the day into an informal working session where students could brainstorm research ideas, ask questions, and collaborate in a low-pressure environment. The result was one of the most fulfilling sessions of the semester. Students worked in small groups, shared ideas, and were energized by simply being together. That day reinforced for me that teaching isn’t just about imparting knowledge; it’s about creating a space where students feel grounded, supported, and part of something larger than themselves. In a society increasingly defined by isolation, the classroom remains a vital place for human connection.
Storytelling Enriches Engagement
One of the most enriching pedagogical strategies I have embraced is storytelling. Storytelling offers students an opportunity to connect their personal experiences with course material, making learning more meaningful and relatable. For example, in my Gender and Society course, I ask students to reflect on at least three interesting concepts, ideas, or insights from the text and relate them to their own lives or something they’ve observed in society. One prompt invites students to recall specific incidents from their childhood or adolescence in which they learned what it meant to be masculine or feminine, a boy or a girl. They are encouraged to write a story or account of those moments, examining how they internalized gender roles. Another assignment asks students to analyze how gender is presented in popular media—like a movie, music video, or video game—and reflect on the gendered messages conveyed. These assignments are intentionally informal and unstructured to encourage freewriting and creativity.
In my Race and Ethnic Minorities course, I incorporate a photo essay assignment where students submit 3 to 5 original photos that reflect how their racial, ethnic, regional, national, and/or cultural identities are expressed in their daily lives. Each photo includes a brief caption (two to three sentences) explaining the image’s significance. As the first major assignment of the semester, this exercise is meant to encourage students to engage with the material in a deeply personal way. The goal is to foster self-reflection and help students make meaningful connections between their lived experiences and the concepts we explore in class.
Supporting Student Well-Being
Teaching with empathy in 2025 also means prioritizing student well-being in ways that go beyond academic achievement. The past few years have revealed the deep toll societal unrest, economic instability, and global crises have taken on students’ mental health. In response, I aim to cultivate a classroom culture that encourages self-care, compassion, and resilience. In practice, this involves offering flexible deadlines, allowing extensions when necessary, and providing mental health resources. I’ve also made mindfulness exercises a part of my teaching toolkit. This might include a brief moment of silence after an intense classroom discussion about the Battle of Wounded Knee or a freewriting exercise to help process lecture material on gentrification. These practices create space for students to engage with challenging topics without becoming overwhelmed.
I also integrate small group discussions to help encourage a sense of community and shared responsibility for learning. After a lecture, I often divide students into small groups to discuss and process key concepts, share their perspectives, and ask questions they might not feel comfortable posing in front of the whole class. For example, following a lecture on systemic racism, students might discuss in groups how historical inequalities manifest in their local communities or how these issues relate to the material covered. Overall, I aim to develop classroom practices that help students manage stress, regulate their emotions, and process the course content.
Communication as Connection
Finally, I cannot overstate the importance of clear and intentional communication in creating a stable classroom environment. Bi-weekly update emails act as consistent touchpoints, ensuring students have guidance on expectations, deadlines, and resources. In my online courses, I integrate “Reminders” pages at the start of each module to summarize essential tasks and deadlines. In my in-person classes, I display “Reminders” slides at the beginning of class. These practices help students manage their workload and hopefully reduce stress and anxiety.
Providing personalized feedback is central to my teaching philosophy, though it remains a challenge when teaching four or more classes with large enrollments. Fortunately, I have been able to rely on a graduate assistant to help alleviate the workload while still prioritizing my students’ growth. One student evaluation noted that I “do not just give feedback” but “engage with their thoughts,” adding that they “looked forward to writing papers” in my class. The student’s comment speaks to my efforts to demonstrate attentiveness to their ideas.
To Conclude…
Teaching with empathy in 2025 means fostering an environment where students feel seen, supported, and connected. My students have shown me that the classroom has the potential to be a sanctuary where a meaningful community can thrive. That “research day” I tried to cancel? It taught me that being present, offering support, and creating space for connection can be enough to foster learning. Those students turned out some phenomenal papers.
Bio
JoAnna Boudreaux is an Assistant Professor of Teaching and Internship Coordinator in the Department of Sociology at the University of Memphis. With a PhD in Communication Studies and a Master’s in Sociology, Dr. Boudreaux combines insights from both fields to develop her classroom strategies. Dr. Boudreaux is dedicated to promoting inclusive, supportive learning environments that encourage personal growth and meaningful academic inquiry. She teaches various courses including Race and Ethnic Minorities, Gender and Society, Marriage and Family, Medical Sociology, Social Theory, and Writing in Sociology.