Words, Words, Words.
—Hamlet
Oftentimes, communication becomes a laborious task. Many of us constantly blasting Tweets, punching out emails, replying to texts, and answering phone calls. Sometimes we don’t know how to say what we’re feeling, and other times we can predict exactly how someone will reply when asked, “So, how’s it going?” “Oh, you know, pretty good.” It seems we find communication boring, as if it were some chore like doing the laundry. Other times, it presents us with challenges so great we don’t know how to face them. Whatever we might feel about communicating, it’s almost certain that we almost always take it for granted. Take words themselves, for example. Words — the basic, yet complex building blocks of language — are the tools we use to give our thoughts and experiences meaning. The ancient Hebrews went as far as to say that life and death were in the power of words.
So, it only makes sense that, as mankind experiences new things, he will craft new words to give his experience meaning. With the introduction of new, incredible technologies into our every-day lives, which undoubtedly change the way we experience life, we have begun to create new words to describe and share our experiences. Although scholars are undoubtedly correct in their assertion that text message, IM, and email communiques affect the way we interact in so-called “real life,” adding new words and expressions to our vocabularies, this is nothing new under the sun. For instance, before World War II, one would have been hard pressed to find the word “genocide” used to describe the systematic slaughter of a people group. But, after humanity experienced the Holocaust, we drew upon that and began using a new word to describe our experience. In a similar manner, the introduction of new technology has demanded that we continue coming up with new ways of describing our experiences.
I don’t know if it’s so much that we find communication boring, but that communication serves multiple functions. When people say “so how’s it going,” the point of that question is usually not really information exchange, but rather social noticing. These kinds of small talk, which is what a lot of text messaging consists of, are really ways to let people know – hey I notice you, I am affirming your existence. Small talk is part of the social glue of human societies.
I think was a really interesting point of view on how to look at IM and email! It is true that we keep adapting to whatever new technology comes out and also coming up with new ways to describe our experiences. I do sometimes get bored with conversations through texting especially when it seems like I run out of things to say and especially when the other person is just giving one word responses. As far as YOLO goes, I love the song and don’t think there is anything wrong with acronyms.
I definitely agree with you about us not knowing how to communicate in person. It sometimes is easier to text or send an email because emotions can play a role and the other party doesnt want to see the persons expressions. We are adapting to IM, texting and emailing more than just face to face converstaions which I think is starting to hinder a lot of relationships.